What do you do when people don’t understand you? Do you repeat what you said? Do you stop speaking? Do you feel bad?
When we speak a second language (and even in our first language), people may not understand us 100% of the time.
This can be because of pronunciation, sentence structure, choice of words, and many other reasons. There’s no reason to feel bad about it- it’s part of speaking a second language. Yet, it’s always a learning opportunity.
Here’s what you can do when you face it:
- First, try to rely on non-verbal communication. Your body language and your voice – not just your words- are meaningful. Smile and take a deep breath. When we smile, it’s projected inwards and outwards, and makes our communication more at ease.
- Then, say what you wanted to say again. It could be the same words, only more slowly and powerfully, or if necessary rephrase it. Don’t be afraid of repeating yourself or sounding redundant. As listeners, people often need to hear something more than once in order to understand it. Focus on one or two key words in your message. Make sure you say them with confidence in your full voice.
- Then, pay attention to what it was that got you stuck, or was not fully understood by your listener. Whether it is a sound, a grammar structure, or a certain word, make a note about it and practice it so next time it won’t be a barrier.
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Once you finish, let me know if you have ever experienced a situation when someone didn’t understand you, and what you did.