Hey everyone. Welcome to the InFluency Podcast. I’m Hadar, and this is episode number 432. I’m kidding. It’s episode 141. I just felt like saying that number. And then I decided to keep it. Today, we’re going to talk about the prepositions ‘on’, ‘in’ and ‘at’. This is part two: when it comes to prepositions of place. Let’s go.

Hey, hey. Thanks again for tuning in for this episode of the InFluency Podcast. So, in the previous episode we talked about ‘on’, ‘in’ and ‘at’ when it comes to time: when we’re supposed to use ‘on’, ‘at’ or ‘in’ when planning something, or talking about time. “We’re gonna meet in the summer.” On Wednesday. At 3:00 PM. Or ‘at noon’.

But what happens when we need to use these prepositions when we talk about place? Does it have the same system? The answer is yes… but. Yes, but there are some changes here. And this is why I think you’re going to love listening to this episode, where I talk about prepositions, and how to think about space or describing space and places.

And also, to talk about when it gets complicated. Because we love complicated, we love simplifying complicated things. That’s why we’re here. So, let’s listen to today’s episode, and I’ll meet you here right after that.

Last video, I also said it, that when you look at these three words, you want to think about it in those terms. Where ‘at’ is the most specific, ‘on’ is a little less specific, and ‘in’ is the least specific. Now, when it comes to place, I want to add one more thing. Let’s make it more visual. Think of ‘at’ as a dot, ‘on’ as a line, and ‘in’ as a box.

So, ‘at’ is most specific. ‘at’ is used when you want to describe a specific place. “I am sitting at the table.” “There is somebody at the door, let me go get it”. Places around town: “I’m at the supermarket.” “I’m at the movie theater.” “I’m at school”. “I’m at the office.”

So if you look at the map, and you can mark an X on specific places, this is when you’d use ‘at’. At the store, at the supermarket, at school. So places, ideas of places. Okay. Also, it is used to describe events. For example, I’m at a conference, I’m at a concert, I’m at a meeting. So ‘at’ is used to describe specific places.

‘On’ is a line, a surface. So we can say on the street, on the road. You use it to describe levels. “I’m on the second floor.” You use it to describe coastlines: on the east coast, on the west coast. Why? It’s not a specific place, it’s somewhere along this line. So I can say, I live on 14th Street. Okay? I don’t commit to where, it can be anywhere along 14th Street. But if I want to be more specific, I zoom in and then I use ‘at’. “I live at 35 West 14th Street.” “I live on 14th Street”. Or, “I live at 35 West 14th Street.”

I can tell you, “Hey, there’s a great restaurant on the road. You have to try it.” If I want to be more specific, I’ll zoom in and say, “There is a great restaurant at the end of the road.” Okay? On the road – can be anywhere along the road; zooming in – at the end of the road.

When we talk about crossroads or intersections, we can use both ‘on’ and ‘at’. So, “I’ll meet you on the corner of Broadway and 82nd Street, because these are two lines that are meeting. And I can also say, “I’ll meet you at the corner of Broadway and 82nd Street, because it’s a specific point.

And then we have ‘in’. ‘In’ is the least specific, as I described it. But I also said that you want to think of it as a box. But it’s also something that is surrounded with something, some kind of borders: either walls or borders on the map. So ‘in’ is used for neighborhoods: I live in Queens, I live in Manhattan. ‘in’ is also used for cities: in Tokyo, in Cairo, in Moscow.

‘in’ is used for countries: in the US, in Argentina, in Asia. Continents, okay? In the universe. So, ‘in’ always think of it as a specific place within a larger place with borders, with boundaries, although the universe doesn’t have any boundaries, but you get what I mean.

So we talked about boundaries on the map, but we also have physical boundaries. For example, “I’m in the room. She’s in the house. I’m in a car right now.” And I can also say: in the park, and in the office. But wait a minute. I said “at the office” just before. How can I say “in the office”? What’s the difference between “at a coffee shop” or “in the coffee shop”? And this is where it gets interesting.

So this is how I see it. And I invite you to let me know in the comments below how you see it. Because it’s a little vague, and even American speakers can’t tell exactly when they use ‘in’ and ‘at’. It’s very intuitive. I’ll give you my take on it.

‘In’ is the physical place. When you use ‘in’, you want to indicate that you’re within the physical place, because there is a reason for it.

And ‘at’ is more the concept of the place, or it’s about what you do in the place. Okay? So for example, I can say, “I’m at a coffee shop”. Just indicating that I’m at the coffee shop. I can be just outside of the coffee shop when I say ‘at’. Because it’s the idea of the place, is what I do there.

And if I say “I’m in the coffee shop”, it means that there’s a reason why I used it. It means that I’m physically inside the coffee shop. Okay? I’m not gonna say if someone calls me is like, “Hey, where are you?” I’d say, “I’m at a coffee shop.” But if my friend that is coming to meet me, asks me, “Where are you?” I’d say, “I’m in the coffee shop. Come on inside.” I’m inside. I’m in.

Or, I’m at the office. “Oh, I’m at the office today. I can’t see you.” It can be me buying coffee downstairs, still at the office. It can be me in the kitchen, speaking to a colleague, but I’m still at the office. But if someone is coming for a meeting and calling me from downstairs, I’d say, “Come on up. I’m ‘in’ the office”. Because I’m inside the office.

Let’s say, for example, someone’s calling and is like, “Oh my God, it’s snowing like crazy outside. Are you okay?” “Oh yeah. Don’t worry, I’m in the office.” I used ‘in the office’ to indicate that I’m within the physical place, that I’m surrounded with the walls around me. Okay? That’s what’s important here. This is why I used in. Otherwise, I’d probably just use ‘at’.

So I can say ‘at’ when I want to talk about the idea of the place, what I do in the place. It doesn’t have to be physically inside the place. I can be just outside of it. Okay? “I’m at the park”. I can be across the street. But if I use ‘in’, then it means that I have to be physically inside, surrounded by the borders and the boundaries of the place.

So to conclude: ‘at’ is a specific place. It’s the idea of the place, it’s an X on the map. It’s a point, a dot. ‘on’ is a surface. It’s like a line, okay? It can be anywhere on this line, but you don’t commit to where. And ‘in’ is something that you have to physically walk into or get into, if we’re talking about a place with borders on the map. Okay?

So ‘on’ is a surface; ‘in’ is three-dimensional, so you have to walk into a place. And ‘at’ is a specific place, whether it’s on something or in something. Okay? So usually, when you have ‘in’, you also have ‘at’ in it. When you have ‘on’, you can also have. ‘at’.

Okay, that’s it. I hope it makes a bit more sense. It definitely helped me when I was trying to figure out when to use any of these three words. Because for me, all three words in my native tongue translate to the same word. So for me, it made a lot of sense to give visual representations to these three words.